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Teach Kids, Not Content
How to Connect with Students and Love Teaching Again

"If you love teaching, the children you are teaching, and want to be a great and inspiring teacher with a lasting and life-improving impact, then this book is for you.”
—Mark Victor Hansen, Co-Creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul

“We have four grown children and nine grandchildren. These wonderful writings and tips are loaded with potentially life-changing ideas to raise happy, healthy, self-confident children. Read them and practice them daily, and see what happens!”
—Brian Tracy, Bestselling Author of More Than 80 Books, Including Eat That Frog! and No Excuses!

“Rediscover your love for teaching and realize your worth! Julia Cook has shown her genius once again! Teach Kids, Not Content is an educational game changer! It offers both the “what” and the “how” for today’s children to succeed in our ever-challenging world. With impactful, authentic stories backed up by strong research, this is a slam-dunk book that you won’t want to put down!”
—Dr Michele Borba PhD, Author of Thrivers and The Unselfie

“Teach Kids, Not Content is a must read for all K-12 educators. Every aspect of teaching and classroom life is presented in a realistic and doable manner. The author's words are driven by a key ingredient of effective teaching—Relationship building! Each highly readable chapter provides techniques and strategies that build connections with students. Written from classroom experience, Teach Kids, Not Content is an authentic difference maker for educators at any stage of their professional career.”
—Dr. Mary Jo Melvin, Professor of Education, Pennsylvania Western University

"This timely book engages the reader to face important truths about teaching children. Julia Cook shares her experiences and heartfelt classroom stories alongside insightful step-by-step strategies. Teach Kids, Not Content showcases her love for children and how much she values their perspective. Julia encourages us to lead with our hearts when it comes to developing the minds of children."
—Bridget Barnes, Director, Common Sense Parenting

“Teach Kids, Not Content highlights the importance of authentic connection and offers a call to each of us as educators to remember the 'why' that first brought us into this profession. Through stories and anecdotes, this book offers hope, humor, and a reminder of how, even in the smallest of moments, we can make a difference in the lives of our young students."
—Sarah I. Springer, Ph.D., LPC, ACS

"As a teacher, principal, and district administrator for 30 years, I highly recommend Teach Kids, Not Content to reinvigorate school staff. The book is practical and can bring value to individual teachers, book studies, and in professional development."
—Christine Garbe, Owner and CEO, Fireweed Educational Consulting

Julia Cook (Author)

9781394351183, Wiley

Paperback / softback, published 14 May 2026

208 pages
23.4 x 18.5 x 1.5 cm, 0.295 kg

Provides educators with real-world tools to reconnect with students and rediscover the joy of teaching

If teaching no longer feels like the calling it once was, you’re not alone—and you’re exactly who Julia Cook wrote this book for. Teach Kids, Not Content is a heartfelt, funny, and refreshingly honest guide for educators who want to reignite their passion for teaching by focusing on what really matters: the kids. Drawing from decades of classroom and counseling experience, Julia delivers real-world strategies for building relationships, boosting mental wellness, and creating learning experiences that stick. She reminds us that the content we teach can never be more important than the children we teach it to.

Packed with relatable stories, research-informed insights, and laugh-out-loud moments, this book encourages teachers to reframe challenges as opportunities for connection and creativity. Whether you’re struggling with burnout, disengaged students, or shifting expectations, Julia’s approach offers practical tools to transform your classroom—and your outlook. Revealing why emotional connection is the key to lasting learning and teacher fulfillment, Teach Kids, Not Content:

  • Shares powerful strategies to help teachers reconnect with students and rebuild classroom energy and engagement
  • Explains how to create emotionally positive learning environments that make lessons meaningful and memorable
  • Offers hands-on methods for managing stress, maintaining mental health, implementing behavior strategies, and finding sustainable joy in teaching
  • Includes authentic classroom stories that model empathy, humor, and hope in everyday situations

Ideal for K-12 educators, school counselors, and education majors, Teach Kids, Not Content is perfect for teacher preparation, classroom management, and social-emotional learning courses. It’s also an inspiring resource for in-service training and professional development programs focused on educator well-being and student engagement.

Preface ix

Introduction XIII

01 Teach Kids, Not Content 1

Breaking Out of Survival Mode 2

Worth Remembering 11

Worth Trying 11

02 I Need a Large Recharge! – Building Mental Wellness 13

Plug That Drain 14

Recharge 15

Replace 16

Worth Remembering 25

Worth Trying 25

03 Building a Teacher’s Bag of Tricks 27

Top 10 Tricks 27

Worth Remembering 37

04 Hopeful Teachers Grow Hopeful Kids 39

Keeping Your Tank Full 39

The Power of Hope 42

Building Hope 45

Hope in Action 45

Modeling Hope 47

Worth Remembering 51

Worth Trying 51

05 Joy – It’s an Inside Job! 53

Finding Joy 53

When Others TRY TO Steal Your Joy 54

Focus on What You Can Control 58

The Candle Problem 59

Joyful Rigor 62

Worth Remembering 63

Worth Trying 64

06 The Power of Concrete Visuals 65

Examining with Your Senses 66

Concrete Visual Activities 67

Worth Remembering 84

Worth Trying 84

07 Unlearning Helplessness – Motivating the Underachiever 85

A Failing System 89

Types of Underachievers 90

Reversing Underachievement 94

What Students Can Do 96

What Parents/Families Can Do 96

What Teachers, Mental Health Professionals, and Administrators Can Do 96

What Society Can Do 97

Conclusion 98

Worth Remembering 101

Worth Trying 101

08 Teaching Kids the Importance of GRIT! 103

The Power of GRIT 104

How to Teach GRIT 106

The Overall Environment 109

Video Games Can Stifle GRIT 113

Worth Remembering 114

Worth Trying 115

09 What I Tell Parents 117

Be Appropriately Honest 118

Teach and Model Good Communication Skills 120

Know the Succeed Needs 122

Teach Your Child Bounce- Back Superpowers 125

Dealing with Kids Who Are Not Very Nice 126

How to Make Friends 126

Build Academic Success 127

Avoid “Peerenting” 128

Watch What You Share 129

Dealing with Separation Anxiety 130

Teach and Model Integrity 132

Teaching Integrity 132

Worth Remembering 134

Worth Trying 135

10 Worry About It! Dealing with an Overly Anxious Child 137

Anxiety Disorder in Kids 138

What Causes Kids to Become Overly Anxious? 138

Online Activity and Anxiety 139

Recognizing Anxiety 140

Strategies and Tools for Managing Anxiety 141

What Educators Can Do to Help 142

Worth Remembering 144

Worth Trying 145

11 Keeping Kids REAL with AI 147

What AI Can Offer Educators 148

What AI Can Do for Students 151

The Downside of AI 152

AI Can Get It Wrong 153

How Using AI Can Hurt Educators 154

How Using AI Can Hurt Kids 156

Worth Remembering 159

Worth Trying 160

12 Honey, the “Secret Sauce” 161

Emotional Memory 162

Creating Glimmers for Kids 163

What I See Is How I’ll Act! 164

Leave It at the Door 166

Helping a Grieving Student 166

Use “And” Not “But” 168

Attitude Is Everything! 169

Worth Remembering 170

Worth Trying 170

Afterword 171

Acknowledgments 177

About the Author 179

Index 181

Subject Areas: Education [JN]

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