“This book is a breath of fresh air for couples in the trenches of parenting. Eli writes with honesty, humor, and hard-won wisdom that makes you feel seen while also giving you a way forward. If you’ve ever wondered, ‘What happened to us?’, this is the roadmap back to connection.”

—Dr. Morgan Cutlip, relationship therapist and author

"From I Do to We Do is the kind of book every parent in the trenches of raising kids and keeping a marriage alive needs! With honesty, humor, and heart, Eli Weinstein offers couples both validation and practical tools for staying connected when life feels chaotic. This book is a lifeline for partners who want to thrive, not just survive, in the parenting years.”

—Dr. Cassidy Freitas, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and host of Holding Space podcast

“This book is a must-read is for anyone who knows there’s more available in their relationships—more honesty, more connection, more love—and is ready to step into that. Page after page, I felt Eli’s words jumping out at me, almost as if he were telling my story. I found deep resonance, solace and hope in this book. If you’re willing to be challenged to grow without losing sight of your humanity, Eli will meet you there. His wisdom isn’t just intellectual, it’s embodied, and it changes the way you see yourself and the people you love . . . in all the best ways.”

—Mark Groves, human connection specialist, author of Liberated Love, and founder of Create The Love

“What makes From I Do to We Do so powerful is how Eli weaves in stories and examples every couple can see themselves in while grounding it all in his expertise. It’s an honest, hopeful reminder that love can thrive even in the busiest, most challenging seasons.”

—Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT & Emmalee Bierly, LMFT, Co-Owners of The Therapy Group & Co-Hosts of ShrinkChicks Podcast

“Eli Weinstein gets it. Marriage changes after kids, and most couples aren’t ready for how much. From I Do to We Do helps parents rebuild connection and teamwork, because happier couples raise happier children.”

—Dr. Mona Amin, pediatrician and creator of PedsDocTalk, a global platform for parenting and child health education

“Parenting is hard—and keeping your relationship strong can feel even harder. In From I Do to We Do, therapist Eli Weinstein gives couples down-to-earth tools and real-life strategies to stay connected through the messy, miraculous transition from ‘just us’ to ‘mom and dad.’ It’s a practical guide to finding teamwork, laughter, and love in the trenches of parenting.”

—Sharon Mazel, parenting expert and author of Bite-Sized Parenting: Your Baby’s First Year

“Eli Weinstein writes a brilliant depiction of the challenges parents experience while navigating marriage while also raising children. He expertly and eloquently shares advice in a helpful and honest way to help couples go from surviving to thriving. This is a must read for any couple struggling with the balance between being a parent and a spouse that is looking to reconnect and rebuild their relationship.”

—Dr. Kim Van Dusen, LMFT, RPT and founder of The Parentologist

“As someone who has spent years helping parents navigate the emotional ups and downs of family life, I found this book to be an invaluable guide. It also feels like sitting down with a friend who gets it. We’re reminded that partnership and parenthood don’t have to be at odds. They can even strengthen each other when approached with honesty and intention. A must-read for every parent who’s ever wondered, ‘What happened to us?’”

—Dr. Siggie Cohen, Child Development Specialist and founder of drsiggie.com

“From I Do to We Do is a thoughtful, practical guide for couples who want to move beyond surviving marriage and into truly building it. Eli Weinstein blends clinical insight with real-world wisdom, offering couples tools they can actually use, not just concepts to admire. This is a book I’d confidently recommend to both couples and clinicians alike.”

—Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT, author of I Want This To Work and Til Stress Do Us Part