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Finding the Words
Empowering Struggling Students through Guided Conversations
"Avoiding theory and jargon, Dr. Hayley Watson's Finding the Words is a hands-on resource for teachers and other caring adults who hope to address young people's mental health issues proactively, responsively, and responsibly. From her deep experience as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Watson presents a practical framework for understanding common problems young people are facing—and then illustrates it with sample conversations that offer constructive strategies to support young people in overcoming these obstacles. Using highly accessible language, she encourages us to act on everyday opportunities to have a positive impact on young people who are experiencing mental health challenges." "Finding the Words serves as a trusted colleague for educators, offering guidance and examples crucial for supporting students in their moments of struggle. This reliable companion empowers educators to authentically connect with students, equipping them with the words needed to navigate challenging situations and foster meaningful understanding." "Dr. Watson's kind and open heart in the pages of this educator's guide make it possible to reach and connect with students and heal ourselves. Having strength, courage, and knowledge in all our approaches even when challenged by a student's behavior is our own healing. Always leading with the heart, Dr. Watson makes us stronger and wiser through practical and accessible guidance. In this guide, educators can find comfort in knowing that there are answers to hard questions as they navigate challenges with students as we learn and grow together."” "The book beautifully encapsulates the idea that as educators, our role goes far beyond imparting knowledge; we are also responsible for nurturing the emotional well-being of our students. Dr. Watson highlights the crucial steps in self-reflection that can help students confront their inner needs and find their true selves. By making space for this self-discovery, educators can profoundly impact a student's personal growth. Every educator or supporter of education can benefit from this book." "Finding the Words is more than just a book – it's a call to action, empowering educators to engage in transformative conversations with young people facing significant challenges in their lives. Dr. Watson skillfully uses real life scenarios to demonstrate the application of a six-part process designed to boost mental health resilience among youth. At the heart of this approach is the value placed on deep, meaningful conversations between young people and supportive adults, providing the context for nurturing the insights and skills youths need to help them navigate adversity." "Dr. Hayley has a deep, authentic passion to help students’ mental health journey and for educators to be equipped with the tools to help do and say the right thing in the moment. I believe this book will be the toolkit educators need to help students navigate some of their hardest years of mental health. Dr Hayley’s wisdom, intellect and genuine care for humans comes through in the words of this book. She breaks down the seemly overwhelming subject of mental health and gives educators the confidence and the language to meet students where they are at. It gives constructive and practical examples of real-life interviews with students for teachers to draw on to prepare for the tough conversations."
—Sheldon Berman, Ed.D., Lead Superintendent for Social-Emotional Learning, AASA, The School Superintendents Association
—Liz Hill, M.Ed., Assistant Superintendent, West Vancouver Schools, Canada
—Maura Papile, L.I.C.S.W., Senior Director of Student Support Services, Quincy Public Schools
—Scott Frauenheim, President and Chief Executive Officer, Distinctive Schools
—Jenny Williams, Educational Consultant and Developer of http://wellbeingbc.ca
—Jules Sebastian, Founder of The Sebastian Foundation
Dr. Hayley Watson (Author)
9781394187140, Wiley
Paperback / softback, published 26 February 2024
272 pages
23.1 x 18.3 x 2.3 cm, 0.386 kg
Boost your confidence in supporting the mental health of all students Educators can’t always fix or change students’ challenging situations, but with Dr. Hayley Watson's Finding the Words, they can create compassionate, safe spaces to truly make a difference to student wellbeing. As educators, we are in a position where we can help students break out of cycles of anxiety, low mood, and peer struggles, without needing to be a mental health expert. This book shows you how to support students with issues like parental loss, low body image, bullying, addiction, and more—with practical language that you can use anytime you are on-the-spot with a struggling student. This language helps you set boundaries to protect your own wellbeing, by guiding your students towards self-reliance and resilience. In Finding the Words, author and clinical psychologist Hayley Watson offers practical advice with a personal, self-reflective, and relatable tone. In each chapter, you’ll explore the topics students struggle with most, including hot-button issues like consent and prejudice. You’ll learn how to talk to kids about these issues in a way that helps them make positive changes in their lives. With this book, you will feel like you have a psychologist on hand to support you in those moments when you know your response could mean the world to a struggling student. This is a critical resource for school leaders, teacher leaders, classroom teachers and school staff. Any adults who work with youth can benefit from this insightful, expert advice on how to help in the moments when your students need you most.
Acknowledgments xv Introduction xvii Chapter 1 understanding student mental health 1 Shadow qualities and the true self 1 Section 1 rejecting/acceptance (remembering love) 11 Chapter 2 finding the words with students who are in rejecting behavior patterns 13 What can I do to help students who are rejecting? 15 Chapter 3 encouraging students who are disengaged from school 17 Why do students disengage from school? 17 What can I do to help a student who is disengaged from school? 18 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is disengaged from school? 18 Chapter 4 supporting students who face abuse and domestic violence 25 Why does abuse and domestic violence impact students? 25 What can I do to help a student who has faced abuse or domestic violence? 26 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who has faced abuse or domestic violence? 26 Why do students act with aggression or bully others? 33 What can I do to help a student who is being aggressive or bullying others? 34 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who has been aggressive or bullied others? 34 Chapter 6 helping gender diverse students feel included 41 Why do many students with gender diversity struggle so much? 41 What can I do to help a student who is gender diverse and struggling to feel accepted? 42 How will i have a constructive conversation with a student who is struggling with their experience of gender? 42 Section 2 controlling/spontaneity (remembering safety) 49 Chapter 7 finding the words with students who are in controlling behavior patterns 51 What can I do to help students who are controlling? 52 Chapter 8 supporting students who are worried, anxious, or stressed 55 Why do students experience worries, anxiety, and stress? 55 What can I do to help a student who is experiencing worries, anxiety, or stress? 56 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is experiencing worries, anxiety, or stress? 56 Chapter 9 guiding students away from peer rivalry 61 Why do students get into rivalries with peers and siblings? 61 What can I do to help a student who is in a rivalry with a peer or sibling? 62 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is in a rivalry with a peer or sibling? 62 Chapter 10 talking to students about unhealthy eating habits 69 Why do students have disordered eating? 69 What can I do to help a student who has disordered eating? 70 How will I have constructive conversation with a student who has disordered eating? 70 Section 3 avoiding/openness (remembering courage) 79 Chapter 11 finding the words with students who are in avoiding behavior patterns 81 What can I do to help students who are avoiding? 82 Chapter 12 supporting students who self-harm 85 Why do students self-harm? 85 What can I do to help a student who is self-harming? 86 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is self-harming? 86 Chapter 13 helping students who people-please 95 Why do students develop people-pleasing behaviors? 95 What can I do to help a student who is people-pleasing? 96 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is people-pleasing? 96 Chapter 14 encouraging students who are depressed or apathetic 103 Why do students get depressed and become apathetic? 103 What can I do to help a student who is depressed or apathetic? 104 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is depressed or apathetic? 104 Chapter 15 guiding students who are caught in addictive patterns 119 Why do students become addicted? 119 What can I do to help a student who is in an addictive pattern? 120 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is in an addictive pattern? 120 Chapter 16 communicating with students who have faced loss 129 Why do students struggle to cope with loss/grief? 129 What can I do to help a student who is struggling with grief? 130 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is grieving? 130 Section 4 following/leadership (remembering identity) 141 Chapter 17 finding the words with students who are in following behavior patterns 143 What can I do to help students who are following? 144 Chapter 18 supporting students who are negatively impacted by gender norms 147 Why are gender norms impacting students? 147 What can I do to help a student who is impacted by gender norms? 148 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student about gender norms? 148 Chapter 19 guiding students to make healthy choices on social media 155 Why is social media impacting students? 155 What can I do to help a student who is impacted by social media? 156 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student about social media? 156 Chapter 20 supporting students with low body image 163 Why does body image impact students? 163 What can I do to help a student with low body image? 164 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student about body image? 164 Chapter 21 helping students stand up to peer pressure 171 Why does peer pressure impact students? 171 What can I do to help a student who is impacted by peer pressure? 172 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student about peer pressure? 172 Chapter 22 supporting students who are bullied 179 Why does being bullied impact students? 179 What can I do to help a student who is being bullied? 180 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student about being bullied? 180 Chapter 23 guiding students who violate consent 185 Why do students violate consent? 185 What can I do to help a student who has violated consent? 186 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student about consent violations? 186 Chapter 24 helping students who face prejudice 193 Why are students impacted by prejudice? 193 What can I do to help a student who is impacted by prejudice? 194 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is impacted by prejudice? 194 Section 5 repeating/freedom (remembering clarity) 201 Chapter 25 finding the words with students who are in repeating behavior patterns 203 What can I do to help students who are repeating? 204 Chapter 26 minimizing the influence of pornography and “rape culture” 207 Why are students impacted by pornography and why does “rape culture” exist? 207 What can I do to help a student who is impacted by pornography and involved in “rape culture”? 208 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is impacted by pornography and participating in “rape culture”? 208 Chapter 27 supporting students who experience intergenerational trauma 215 Why are students impacted by intergenerational trauma? 215 What can I do to help a student who has experienced intergenerational trauma? 216 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who has experienced intergenerational trauma? 216 Chapter 28 helping students cope with being objectified 223 Why are students impacted by objectification? 223 What can I do to help a student who has experienced objectification? 224 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who has been objectified? 224 Chapter 29 responding to students who share stories of parental conflict and separation 229 Why are students impacted by parental conflict and separation? 229 What can I do to help a student who is struggling with parental conflict or separation? 230 How will I have a constructive conversation with a student who is struggling with parental conflict or separation? 230 Chapter 30 what’s next? 237 About the author 239 Index 241
chapter 5 coaching students who bully or are aggressive/violent 33
Subject Areas: Education [JN]
