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Becoming the Teacher I Needed: Lessons in Radical Kindness and Resilience

Praise for Becoming the Teacher I Needed

“This is the book we desperately need—honest, hilarious, and deeply human. This book doesn't sugarcoat the challenges of teaching, but it reminds us why the work matters. Chang's journey from a student who hated school to an educator who transforms lives is both inspiring and instructional. Every teacher, administrator, and parent should read this.”
—Gerry Brooks, educator, administrator, social media influencer 

“Jere Chang didn’t just write a book—she handed teachers a permission slip. A reminder that teaching is layered, emotional, and way bigger than anything that fits on a data chart. Her stories speak to the heart of this work and whisper what we already know: the most important stuff can’t be measured, boxed, or benchmarked. If you work with kids, put this on the top of your reading pile. Non-negotiable.”
—Greg Smedley-Warren, kindergarten teacher/Kindergarten Smorgasboard

"With the authenticity, humility, and heart that we've come to expect, Jere Chang captures the magic of her legendary videos in book form.  This work will probably make you laugh, think, and cry. . . and definitely help you do better for your students and yourself.  I cannot recommend it enough!"
—Dr. Matt Zakreski, PsyD, clinical psychologist and professional speaker at the Neurodiversity Collective

"Jere Chang has written the teacher memoir that combines heart, humor, and hard truths in perfect measure. Her stories about growing up queer and disabled, then becoming an educator who creates safe spaces for all students, are deeply moving. This book proves that our most powerful teaching comes from our own healing."
—Jennifer Craft Sewell, M.Ed, @ms.craft_kindergarten

“Jere’s book stayed with me long after I turned the last page. It’s a beautiful reminder of how powerful stories can be when they’re told with honesty and heart. Her voice is so brave, and every chapter feels like an invitation to see the world differently.”
—Amany Elgendy

 “A powerful call to restore humanity to the classroom. Jere Chang reminds us that belonging is not a bonus—it is the blueprint. This book reinforces a truth I have long believed: schools rise and fall on relationships. Practical, courageous, and deeply affirming, it moves educators from compliance-driven teaching to connection-driven leadership.”
—Dr. Brad Johnson

Jere Chang (Author)

9781394357628, Wiley

Hardback, published 11 May 2026

208 pages
22.6 x 15.8 x 1.8 cm, 0.386 kg

Rediscover your passion for teaching and build the resilience to thrive in today's challenging classroom

Becoming the Teacher I Needed by Jere Chang (known as “Ms. Chang”) offers a candid roadmap for educators struggling with burnout, disillusionment, and the mounting pressures of modern teaching. Drawing from her two decades in both general and gifted education classrooms, along with her childhood challenges in the classroom and experience as a social media sensation with over 4 million followers, Ms. Chang provides authentic insights into the realities teachers face daily. This isn't just another motivational book – it's a practical guide that acknowledges common teaching challenges while empowering educators to rediscover their purpose, prioritize their well-being, and continue making a meaningful impact on students' lives.

Ms. Chang honestly addresses the systemic issues and daily struggles that leave so many teachers feeling overwhelmed and undervalued, from behavioral challenges to unsustainable workloads. Rather than dwelling on problems, however, she offers actionable strategies for building resilience, maintaining work-life balance, and reconnecting with the profound reasons you became a teacher in the first place. The book culminates in a comprehensive framework that helps educators thrive in their calling.

  • Authentic perspective from the trenches: Written by an active classroom teacher who has navigated over 20 years of real-world challenges, not theoretical advice from someone who's never encountered today's students or classrooms
  • Proven strategies for avoiding burnout: Practical techniques for self-care, boundary-setting, and sustainable teaching practices that protect your mental health while maximizing your impact
  • Relationship-building expertise: Methods for creating meaningful connections with students that enhance learning outcomes and make teaching more rewarding
  • Resilience-building framework: A systematic approach to developing the mental toughness needed to navigate educational bureaucracy, difficult parents, and challenging student behaviors
  • Community-tested wisdom: Insights refined through engagement with millions of educators across Chang's social media platforms resulting in relevant, effective advice

This essential resource speaks directly to K-12 teachers who entered the profession with hope and passion but now find themselves questioning their career choice due to mounting pressures and systemic challenges. It will also prove invaluable to teacher leaders, administrators, and education advocates hoping to understand and address teacher retention issues. Whether you're a new teacher feeling overwhelmed, a veteran educator considering leaving the profession, or a school leader working to support your staff, Becoming the Teacher I Needed provides inspiration, validation, and practical tools that will reignite your love for teaching and build a sustainable, fulfilling career in education.

Introduction xi

Part I The Stories That Shaped Me 1

Chapter 1 Designing My Journey 3

Chapter 2 The World’s OK-est Teacher 21

Chapter 3 When “Average” Teachers Thrive 27

Chapter 4 Bless Your Heart 31

Chapter 5 Longing for the Teacher I Needed as a Child 35

Chapter 6 The Hidden Disability 39

Chapter 7 Gay and Disabled 45

Chapter 8 The Teacher Who Believed, the Coach Who Broke, and the Mom Who Fought Back 51

Chapter 9 We’re Just Getting Started 59

Part II The Strategies That Inspire Me 69

Chapter 10 More Than Showing Up: How Trust Turns Classrooms into Communities 73

Chapter 11 More Than a Smile: The Power of Joyful Classrooms 81

Chapter 12 Oops, Now What? When Humor Goes Too Far 91

Chapter 13 The Courage to Ask for Help 99

Chapter 14 Recharge, Rethink, Reignite: Smarter PD for the Tired Teacher 107

Chapter 15 Becoming Better Without Burning Out 111

Chapter 16 Finding Value in Creative Thinking 119

Chapter 17 The Genius of Amplifying Student Voices 125

Chapter 18 Finding Mentors in Unlikely Places 131

Chapter 19 Create the Career You Desire 137

Chapter 20 Protecting Your Peace One Parent at a Time 141

Chapter 21 Have Fun and Teach Like Nobody’s Watching 145

Chapter 22 Too Much Pie: Establishing Boundaries 151

Chapter 23 Learn from the Experts Down the Hall 159

Chapter 24 Mindset Over Validation 163

Chapter 25 What It Means to Lead Together 169

Conclusion 175

Acknowledgments 183

Author’s Bio 185

Index 187

Subject Areas: Education [JN]

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